Wednesday, June 23, 2010

My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

I love my husband a lot and would show my full affection to him, but he doesnt show it in the same manner as I do.



I felt that he doesnt like me much since heused to talk about the hair on my face.And its true... but I am sure he does love me...



But I want him to show his love in words and gestures. Any remedy?



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

Have you expressed to him what you want? Have you told him exactly the way you want him to show love?



Recently my husband and I had a few counseling sessions at our church and the pastor brought up some VERY good points because I had said the same thing - I felt my husband wasn't giving me the affection like I wanted him to.



And yes, I wasn't telling my husband what I wanted or the way I wanted him to show me love. I was just assuming that he should know that. That is where I was wrong.



remember that guys and girls are WAY different. We think about situations differently as well. We, as women, are affectionate by nature, loving by nature and we are nurturers. Men on the other hand, they are bread winners, fixers, and some of the time doers. They are also very visual being's.



There are two things that married couples do that hurt the relationship the most - expect and assume... Take those very two things out and you can accomplish anything.



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

yes ...



do whatever he wants.



as long as hes really nice.................



he will never forget you if your the one who did EVERYTHING RIGHT



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

People tend to speak and give love in their own "love language."



Sitting here in front of a computer, I don't know what he is like. But, most people speak in different love languages. He is probably showing his love for you in other ways that HE thinks you might like.



Communication is the key. Tell him how you would like to him to show his love for you. If he doesn't respond, then there are deeper issues.



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

well all guys are diffrent ,they show there love in diffrent ways even if they dont say or show it. im pertty sure he still loves you, he problably doesn't want to bore you with the same thing all the time. show him how you feel, if all fails straight out and have a conversation about it.



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

i know how u feel i go though the same with my man but i know that he loves me if u feel it in your heart u will know some men dont know how to show there love



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

Hey ever one is different , But you might try to open up with him about this and just let him know how you want and deserve to be treated and tell him how to handle your love and affection, and if this get's you know where make him jealous!!!



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

your husband was raised by different people than you, maybe the way he learned affection is different than your way, take a look at his parents how they are toward each other, it may explain some things. secondly, get involved with his hobbies get out of the "same old routine". find out what lights his fires, nylons? lipstick? of course the standard answer is to talk it out... YAWN! tell him what blows your skirt up!, but change the routine



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

Get real.



You own the keys to the pleasure palace.



You have got to work that thing.



Men think with the little head.



I don't care if you have to stand in front of the TV, slip off those clothes, walk over to him and pull his face into the triangular monster.



If he does not respond, turn OFF the TV and do it again.



You might need to be a bit more aggressive, but IT WILL WORK.



If all else fails, get to Dallas ASAP!!!



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

You are completely wrong, you are more sensitive, thatz why you are feeling like that, though he does not show his love on you



he will have love on you. the same is happening in my house my wife used to say tat "i only loving you but you are not loving me". but i know how much i love her. I'm sure your husband also love



you more than you love him. You understand gents will not show their love like ladies shows.



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

Are you saying he doesn't love you because you have facial hair? If you do, you can get rid of it or at least manage it by getting electrolysis, which they say after a few treatments it may completely go away. Also, you can wax often so he won't see it. If he mentioned the hair on your face, evidently, it is an issue with him, so work on keeping it off and if he still doesn't show his love for you, talk openly with him about it.



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

Men are not emotional people like women.



We want them to tell us how they feel, when they feel we should know. Just because he doesn't tell you as much as you want, doesn't mean he doesn't love you.



Stop looking for him to reaffirm his love for you, and start being the women he fell in love with. Most men want a women that know herself, and doesn't need to be reaffirmed every time their told, how you feel about them. You just keep loving your husband, by praying for him, not for him to show you his love, but actually pray for his strength, health and protection and all else will fall into place.



Get this book - The power of a praying wife.



The prayers of a wife, are stronger then the prayers of a mother. Read, believe and trust...



My Husband doesnt show his love as much as I do?

I suggest you read "Five Love Languages" by Smalley...it explains the different ways used to express love. Some people express love with gift-giving, some with affectionate words and gestures, some with doing things to help you, etc. Each way is a valid expression, but sometimes the way we expect to receive is not the way our spouse uses. Try to recognize the ways he expresses his caring for you. He may not be using words and gestures, but I"m sure if you pay attention you'll notice. Many men think that working and bringing home a paycheck is just as valid a way to express love as inviting you on a romantic date...



Read the book!



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